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This blog was written by Adults Sexually Abused by Priests (ASAP)

When I first joined SNAP, I felt like a fraud. Here were people who were raped when they were children trying to heal from horrific acts and bravely facing the church in a one-step forward, two-steps back struggle for justice and prevention. There’s not much worse than taking advantage and hurting the innocent and the helpless. Here I was, an adult who had been duped by a crazy priest who I thought had used his position to control his love life out of what I believed to be guilt and fear.


Don't Wake Me

This blog was written by Adults Sexually Abused by Priests (ASAP)

It took a long time for me to wake up. Long after my abuse and harassment had ceased, I was still asleep. I still believed it was my fault and that what had happened with Fr. Jade was just the fact that he had feelings for me which he could not deal with. I had an explanation, I thought, for everything. I still missed him. I still thought….maybe if I had done something different, things wouldn’t have turned out this way.


Documentary on Murder of Sister Margaret Ann airing Sundary March 1

A new documentary on the case of Sister Margaret Ann and the first conviction of a catholic priest for murdering a nun in the U.S. will air this Sunday, March 1 at 10:00 PM on Investigation Discovery. This is a fascinating case and one you should definitely tune in to learn more about!


When All Your Dreams Hit the Wall...

This blog was written by Adults Sexually Abused by Priests (ASAP)

When I was a child, I grew up knowing that someday my prince would come. And when that day happened, I would then go on to live the life my mother was living, as her mother had done before her. So I grew up with that internalized view of my future. One day, a man will come along. He will fall in love with my beauty and my good heart and he will pull me onto his white horse and we will live together forever and have a lovely family with… I wanted five… five children… because you see I planned to be a housewife and full-time mother so I could have five children with no problem. And we would all live happily ever after.


It's Not Just Priests

This blog was written by Adults Sexually Abused by Priests (ASAP)

I was conversing with a SNAP member who had been abused as an adult and she asked me to mention that it is not just about priests.


Into the Lion's Den

This blog was written by Adults Sexually Abused by Priests (ASAP)

I’ve found it easier to help others and to listen to their stories. It’s also easier to dance around the subject of adult abuse by priests. It’s not so easy to discuss your own case or to have to face your past and your mistakes and your own shame.


How to Best Make Reports to the Bishop and Law Enforcement

By Steve Bartley, A SNAP Member and a Survivor, January 17, 2020


Important Deadline Reminder for California SNAP

This is an important deadline reminder for those in California.
 
Those survivors who are interested in participating in the Independent Compensation Program (ICP) for victims of childhood sexual abuse by a diocesan priest in the six participating California dioceses (Fresno, Orange, Sacramento, San Bernardino, San Diego and Los Angeles) MUST register online by JANUARY 31, 2020.

Meet your new SNAP board members.

SNAP is taking on a few new board members moving forward into the new decade and we want you to be the first to know. 


Wishes for the Holidays and the New Year – A Survivor’s List

The idea to create these wish-lists came from a survivor named Buddy Robson who wanted to think of ways to combine the holiday giving season with the wishes and needs of survivors. These are wishes that we hope will come true for every survivor and will inspire others to get involved in child sexual abuse prevention in the new year in order to keep children safe, ensure survivors are supported, and help put an end to cases of sexual violence.


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