The Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests
Clergy sex abuse victims to buy ads in Maine newspapers
They will also write to over 100 Maine priests and parish council presidents
Bishop Richard Malone won’t help them find and assist “others in pain”
So group will pay for notices in Maine's five largest secular newspapers
SNAP challenges Maine priests: "Since Bishop Malone won't help, will you be true shepherds & help us find the wounded"
Move comes in the wake of Pope's advice to do "everything possible" to heal victims
In response, SNAP has purchased an ad in Maine’s largest Sunday newspaper and plans to buy at least four other newspaper ads soon (Augusta, Bangor, Lewiston, Waterville). The group is also writing to each individual Maine priest and parish council president, urging them to let SNAP purchase the same notice in their parish bulletins.
Bishop Malone will claim that he’s already done “outreach,” by stating that, in the past, he has urged sexual abuse victims to contact the diocese.
“We know that many abuse victims are reluctant to contact church officials,” says Harvey Paul, Maine SNAP Director, “and feel safer calling a confidential, self-help group of others who have experienced the same pain and suffering. It’s all about one abuse survivor helping another abuse survivor. It works. It's how I was first helped.”
During his visit to the US last month, the Pope repeatedly addressed the church’s on-going crisis, admitting that the situation had often been “badly handled,” reminding bishops of their duty to “bind up the wounds” caused by child sex crimes and cover ups, and urging all Catholics to “do everything possible” to bring healing to victim
SNAP's letter to priests and parish council presidents will ask for donations to help fund more outreach ads.
Letter to be hand delivered to Bishop Richard Malone
May 8, 2008
Most Reverend Richard J. Malone
Dear Bishop Malone,
Two weeks ago, I wrote to you with a simple request to helpvictims of abuse. Sadly, you have not responded.
As I mentioned to you in my previous letter, it is evident, that by his words and actions, Pope Benedict has given permission for all Catholics to help care for those who were abused.
In light of the pope’s message, I am asking you once again to make a small gesture by rescinding your decision last year not to publish our group’s paid advertisement in Harvest, the diocesan bi-monthly news magazine. You told us our ad would not be published because SNAP has “been critical” of you.
Let’s work together to help victims of abuse who are still sick and hurting, still stuck in their fear, guilt and shame. Such feelings can be toxic to an abuse victim. We can help by sharing our experience, strength and hope.
I have enclosed a copy of our proposed ad. I look forward to hearing from you at your earliest convenience.
cc: Sue Bernard, Director of Communications email@example.com
Copy of Advertisement
Abused by clergy? There is help!
We are a confidential, self-help group of men and women who have been victimized by priests, nuns, brothers, bishops, and church workers (of all denominations).
We are working to recover from this trauma.
We provide a safe and sympathetic place for victims to heal.
Please know that you are not alone. The abuse was not your fault.
And please know that suffering in secrecy, silence and shame will not help you or others.
We stand ready to support you.
The Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAP) www.snapnetwork.org
SNAP Confidential 24 hour help line: 877-762-7432
Maine Statewide Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-871-7741 TTY 888-458-5599
Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests