Hi Patricia A Solecki,
I feel for you hon and hope you all the best to get over this horrific exspareance as I feel your pain you are so right about god he is there and I know he will be beside you always , your faith never leaves you as there are so many other religions like you say but you can contact him on any level of your being I dont think you have to be with a certin sect just believing in him is enough thank you for your reply.
Aroha

I have come to the realization I need help to bring this church and its protectors to answer for there past undercover molestations of our poor children an us parents that did not realize the entrusting religion that we put our most precisest children in their care.
gifts we entrusted to teach our loved ones schooling right from wrong and FAITH THAT COULD BE TRUSTED IN FOR OUR CHILD’S LIFE
religion the worst Questions was they need all the ones included all children in the class of my child that was affected by this brother or should I say brothers which is just a cop out what has it got to do with who ever was in that class as they have records for that year I have the teacher or brother concerned in this manner I had the brother visit me at my home opposet the school on an evening about 1/2 past 6 evening to say my child was late due to learning science on a stethoscope that he was of high learning I was so excited that I brought my child one for xmas well what a disappointment as the child wondered why I got this as a present since my child opened up to me a near 2 years ago I have gone over the past an can give all the times when things turned my child from a loving and caring child to an angry and confused troubled child I did not under stand at that time but now want some answers at any cost to prove I do care and want this religion to take responsibility for their actions of miss conduct and stop using their emotions to still make them feel guilty or ashamed to show what happened to them I neeeeed help to save my 44 year old please help me.

Aroha Howearth,I hope that this will be of some help for you because" as I'm writing this I want to use my own words to help myself also,because" I have never had any help either, I have always had the door shut in my face by the clergy ; for our parents to have us baptised Catholic; there is no way for our parents' to have know that the priest who was baptising us; was also the one later on in life will be the one to molest us, don't blame yourself" It wasn't your fault; it wasn't your son's,as it was said to me the blame belongs to the ones who let this go on for decades" if we could have seen into the future" what do they call it " hindsight ? I 'm sure we would have done alot of things differently. Don't take your frustrations out on yourself " take it out on the people who shut the door in our faces,they are the ones" who we; were told to trust in ,matter of fact" the blame and fault; is on the Catholic Church" from the Pope on down the line,but as stated on SNAP this is decades old, like you said keep believing" I'm going to keep believing, one of these day for the ICS to go to the Vatican and arrest the Pope for Child molestation and also for protecting the priest " who are and should be treated as any other child molesters, also; for the priest faces to be on the reg.child molesters list; expc. Fr. Thomas Hanley who resides in Dover,De.
For me to see the Pope go to jail ; would be of some comfort" we can only keep hoping.

Thank you so much in your reply I feel your pain , I myself was not a catholic but thought they loved family and are caring toward children so had my child baptised and brought up by the catholic religion wrong move I regret the day I did that but the price of doing that has been soooo hurtful and like I lost my own soul but am still hoping for forgiveness there is so much the catholic church has to answer for and hope that god in his glory will help you people and children then that has been harmed to be accounted for and hope some one will listen to all of us thankyou dear. Broken hearted mum.

my heart aches for you and your history.and wish i could be there to console you ,my boy was in same surcomstances but not in what you had but in class I have found out now when I was 62 I am now 63 not a cathlic but thought they where the best people to keep him safe as I was a solo mom and very young worked hard and loved me boy hard .missed life but included it he had a lot of things happen to him but was tooo busy working to keep a roof over our head plus thought him taken care of when was at work day and night for me to get a home .once got it fell apart now I have to pay for his torment not by him but what he told me so darlin I feel your pain and hope that you have not lost your faith now thats a hard thing for anyone to say to you but I do believe god will pay them back for all the bad things that happened to you now you are strong and ready to right all the wrongs that has been done to you by letting us know your story and making more of us aware take heart love your self for who you are be strong and most of all be humble and forgiving BUT JUST LIVE for what is now .