| If the Man You Love Was Abused:
A Couple's Guide to Healing, by Marlene M. Browne, Esq.
and Marie H. Browne, RN, PdH. (Adams Media Corporation (February 2007) ISBN-10:
159337643X. The scars left on the hearts
and souls of childhood abuse survivors run deep; they require time, patience,
and support to heal. Written with the needs of both the abuse survivor and spouse/partner
in mind and informed by case studies from real patients in her practice, psychologist
Dr. Marie Browne combines practical applications with authoritative research to
offer you the ultimate guide for getting through this difficult situation. You'll
learn how to help him get the support he needs, and make sure not to neglect your
own needs in the process. Strong
at the Heart: How It Feels to Heal from Sexual Abuse, by
Carolyn Lehman. (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, November 2005) ISBN: 0374372829.
This groundbreaking book brings readers face-to-face
with nine survivors who speak with candor and courage about the sexual abuse they
experienced, how they have healed, and how they are moving forward with their
lives. Includes an interview with a teenaged boy and SNAP member who was abused
at the age of ten by his parish priest. White, black, Latino, and Native American,
these everyday heroes come from a wide range of communities and have found different
ways to cope with and overcome sexual trauma. Through moving personal stories
and striking photographs they take readers into their lives, offering insight
and hope for anyone affected by this all-too-common childhood experience. In this
book about healing, young readers and their families will find additional information
in the resource section, a comprehensive guide to the best help lines, books,
films, and Web sites on healing and resilience. Read
excerpts from author's interview with Jonathan, one of our youngest SNAP members. From
the Foreword: This powerful book
is filled with the distinct, diverse voices of people who experienced rape, molestation,
and incest when they were young. With remarkable honesty they tell how they stopped
feeling victimized and reclaimed their lives the choices they made, the
people they turned to, the inner strength they discovered.
Laura Davis, author of The Courage to Heal Abused
Boys: The Neglected Victims of Sexual Abuse, by Mic
Hunter. (Ballantine Books, June 1991), ISBN: 0449906299. This
myth-breaking study explains the ways in which boys are molested and the reasons
why men remain silent about it later in life. Thirteen firsthand "survival
stories" offer inspiration to readers.
Victims No Longer: Men
Recovering from Incest and Other Sexual Child Abuse,
by Mike Lew. (Perennial Library, February 1990), ISBN: 0060973005. For
millions of men who are survivors of childhood sexusal abuse, this ground-breaking
work offers hope, understanding and essential advice for healing. Written by a
nationally recognized expert on recovery for male survivors, VICTIMS NO LONGER
addresses survivors with compassion, intelligence, and respect.
Leaping upon the Mountains:
Men Proclaiming Victory over Sexual Child Abuse, by
Mike Lew. (North Atlantic Books, March 2000), ISBN: 155643345X. Presenting
the first real investigation of what male survivors themselves identify as most
important during various stages of their recovery. This book is about the successes.
Its contributors speak eloquently and persuasively of the reality of recovery.
The Courage to Heal: A Guide
for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse, by Ellen
Bass and Laura Davis. (Perennial Library, 3rd Edition, June 1994), ISBN: 0060950668.
The Sexual Healing Journey:
A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse, by Wendy Maltz.
(Quill, Revised Edition February 2001) ISBN: 0060959649. Considered
a classic in its field, this comprehensive guide will help survivors of sexual
abuse improve their relationships and discover the joys of sexual intimacy. Based
on the author's clinical work, interviews, and workshops, this guide is filled
with first-person accounts of women and men at every stage of sexual healing.
The Survivor's Guide to Sex:
How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Child Sexual Abuse,
by Staci Haines. (Cleis Press, April 1999) ISBN: 1573440795. Don't
Tell: The Sexual Abuse of Boys, by Michel Dorais. (McGill-Queens
University Press; July 2002) ISBN: 0773522611. Don't
Tell examines the effects of sexual abuse on the emotional and sexual life of
men, including their sense of self and their personal relationships. Using the
first-hand accounts of victims Dorais shows that certain reactions are specific
to male victims of abuse as they attempt to preserve a sense of physical integrity
and masculinity. Sanity
and Grace: A Story of Suicide, Survival and Strength,
by Judy Collins. (J.P. Tarcher Press; September 2003) ISBN: 1585422606.
Popular singer and writer Collins centers this
"monograph of tears" on her 33-year-old son's suicide in 1992, and the
result is a frank and revealing personal work that should resonate with readers
who have suffered a similar loss. Using excerpts from her journals, she details
her own painful attempts to understand her son's actions. The book's beauty is
that Collins never presents her search for understanding in a mawkish or self-centered
way. Her spiritual renewal, her efforts to reach out to others through suicide
survival groups, and her commitment to "friends, therapists, habits of work
and of life that take the power out of the depression" will be an inspiration
and a comfort to those left behind. |